She’s Got It ALL!

She’s got it ALL!!! Yep those are the 4 words I chant in my head over and over again as I sashay all over town handling things. I’m a wife, mom, and a career woman and I do all of these things extremely well…or at least that’s what my friends tell me lol Some days I feel on top of the world and others I feel like the world is crashing down around me! But today, I’m THAT chick!



I’ve never been shy about applauding myself, in fact I encourage that we all do this. I’m my own hype woman, and it helps that my group chat is LIT, oooohhh and Marco Polo don’t even get me started because it goes DOWN! My girls definitely cheer me on! But this doesn’t mean we should wait for others to cheer us on, give yourself permission to grab those pom-poms girl! Can you, cheer for you? It’s ok to acknowledge your greatness, own it, walk in it, and embrace it!


Women like you and I don’t seek approval, we accept our own process and internal experiences through self-validation.


Having it all doesn’t imply that I have reached the height of my accomplishments, it means I am always on a quest for greatness within myself. My aspirations and dreams don’t stop with my current achievements. I am not done growing, learning, or achieving. The only way to truly have it all is through self-acknowledgement. I honor myself by acknowledging that I am more than the titles I have acquired. I deserve the best version of me. This flower must be watered and groomed, and I shouldn’t expect anyone other than me to meet those needs. Women like you and I don’t seek approval, we accept our own processes and internal experiences through self-validation.



  • I am good enough
  • I am a blessing to my husband
  • I am a blessing to my children
  • I surround myself with people who bring out the best in me
  • I work hard
  • I love to give love
  • I am fulfilled
  • I attract good things



Everyday commit to showing up for you. No one can stop you, but you! There will be times that the sounds of those cheering for you is deafening and times when the silence pierces your heart. Learn to walk proud in both moments and give your best anyway. Your spouse, your children, your friends and family need to observe you loving on yourself. It’s the commitment to love yourself that gives others permission to do the same. You have it ALL!

How do you remind yourself that you have it all? What does having it all look like for you? Leave a comment below to encourage some other blended mommas.



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    by Antonique
    Posted 03.21.2019 03.21.2019 0Likes

    Jaz! This is amazing! Self affirmation is so important, often times we forgot to affirm ourselves while everyone else is affirming us. sometimes we have to toot our own horn for our accomplishments. Thank you for this reminder to self validate. We have to be able to recognize our own value and worth within ourselves not just from what other people tell us about who they think we are. Love you sis! So proud of you!

    • theorrs
      by theorrs
      Posted 03.27.2019 03.27.2019 0Likes

      Antonique, I’m glad you enjoyed the article. Yes, self-validation is the only validation we can truly rely on so continue to cheer yourself on. You got this!!! Love you and thank you!

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